How to find and choose a Girlfriend

When you decided to go out for a date, go with one or more additional couples. Avoid going on frequent dates with the same person especially during the earlier times of your endeavor to choose the right person.

Developing serious relationships too early in life (i.e. around 18 and under) can limit the number of other people you can meet and can perhaps lead to wrong choices and waste of precious time. Invite your dating person to meet with your parents or guardian for dinner or lunch at your home as you plan to proceed for higher upcoming rounds. Getting acquainted with the person you are dating to your family and home environment or getting acquainted yourself to their family and home can give you a better sense of suitability of values, culture, and visions for the future.

Choose to date only those who have high moral standards and in whose company you can maintain your values and standards. Remember that a young man and a young woman on a date are responsible to protect each other’s honor and virtue.

Plan dating activities that are safe, positive, and inexpensive and that will help you get to know each other better rather than simply getting attention and approvals from others. Go only to places where you can maintain your standards and remain close to your beliefs and values.

Young men generally take the initiative in asking for and planning dates. Always be kind and respectful when you ask for a date or when you accept or decline one. While on a date, be courteous as you listen to others and express your own feelings.

As you enter your older adult years, make dating and marriage a high priority. Seek a companion who is worthy to hold and being around not only in good times but also in terrible and hard times.

Remember that women are more verbally gifted than men, They express their thoughts and feelings more aptly in words, so verbal expression means a lot to them. For this reason, every man must often express his love for his well-chosen wife in well-chosen words such as ” I love you…you are my everything to me…you are my hope and my sunshine…I will never stop loving you…” It is not enough to serve her wordlessly with your deeds or to assume she knows how much you love her deep down. She needs to hear the words.

Charity means mostly compassionate understanding. Some of the most beautiful and loving words in a marriage are, “I am sorry. Please forgive me” Sincere apology strengthens the love and relationship. It enkindles love over and over again, as it does in the sacrament of reconciliation.